《人生十鑑》

《人生十鑑》

1、大喜易失言
言多必失，特別是在高興的時候，那時的心態是善而良性的，因爲希望傾訴，所以不吐不快；因爲希望分享，但是，心可以亢奮，話仍要沉穩。因爲，說出去的話，再也不能收回。

2、大怒易失禮
這一條比較常見，一但怒從心頭起，恐怕下一步很多都會訴諸肢體動作，遑論禮節。所以，最好的方式是從源頭解決：制怒。

3、大驚易失態
如同曹劉論天下英雄劉備驚掉了筷子一樣，大德劉備尚且如此，常人要做到泰山崩於前而色不變很難。如何面對大驚而不失態？我的理解就是讓心時刻保持安住。

4、大哀易失顏
這裡的顏，我想不光是指顏容、儀態，更多的是指精神狀態。也就是說，面對種種哀傷甚至哀痛，在宣洩過心底的苦與慟之後，需要節制，需要順變，需要向前，別讓頹廢從此左右自己。

5、大樂易失察
跟大喜易失言有近似之處。在高興的時候，往往覺得一切都是可心的、悅目的，而就在此時，分辨的功能往往會被削弱，思考的邏輯往往會被淡化。於是，失察也就乘虛而入了。

6、大懼易失節
恐懼或誘惑之下，意志不堅的人會失去原則與底線。此時，真正的猛士會抬頭、直面，真正的勇士會堅定、堅持。

7、大思易失愛
想法不要瞻前顧後，思慮不要過於繁複，全心付出，愛就愛了。

8、大醉易失德
大醉之時，其言往往會多妄語、綺語，其行往往會多出格、差池。所以，小酒怡情是最好的，大酒不光傷身，更易失德。

9、大話易失信
不輕諾，諾必果，一言九鼎，言出即行。拍胸脯之前，先掂量掂量自己的心量與能量。

10、大欲易失命
老話講的「人爲財死鳥爲食亡」有點近似，爲甚麼失命？因爲把「欲」視爲了生命的根本與全部。海納百川，有容乃大；壁立千仞，無欲則剛。「欲」從來是求而不得的，只有靠善信的發心與不問收獲的耕耘。

What is valuable to you?

What is valuable?

Dearest family n friends,

Covid-19 is not going to be suddenly go away or stop. Although we have movement control order for just 2 weeks, we can only manage to control the speed of spreading. 

We already have seen advance nation is preparing for long term fighting and measurement not just 2 weeks 

What is to come is that this will not just be 2 weeks but long term.

For everything we do, we do it long term because one day long term will come

What we need to see is this will change our lives totally for next 6-12 months unless and until the vaccine is found 

We need to think what is going to be valuable in coming future ?

1) job - if company will have to continue not able to open normal hour, will they need to pay rent and salary? Will they need so many none essential staff? Will they ask people to work from home? Also, will they still pay the same salary? Will they still honor the union agreement since they have perfect reason to let people go? 

(2)job-will we need so many people working when the world is slowing down and not many people will be out? 

(3) travel industry-do you think this is going to be valuable and growing ?

(4) car and petrol price - will it drop or become more valuable? 

(5) properties - will people prefer to buy house or buy essential to survive? Will people rather rent or own property to pay bank installment?

(6) gold and silver - will you buy these or food? Will the price remain the same ? 

(7) airline - advance nation already announced that airline, including best airline in the world, will face bankruptcy by May and government is trying to help to sustain, what do you think will happen around the world with airlines?

(8)country that do not have their own produce of food n only have natural resources, will they survive the lock down or will any country want to export their most valuable thing - food n essential to them?

(9)most populated country now become a even more dangerous place to live in, isn't it?

(10) do you think all countries will reset and go back to original, the country that used to be No1 may end up becoming empty country if they can't fight this virus spread? Do you think the country which has the highest survival rate will become No1 in the world?

(11) do you think cash is important? Will it become more important than property, car, silver and gold? Cash can buy food and essential to stay home now, what else you think will be able to exchange for food and essential

(12) if you are doctor n health professional, will you be call by government soon to serve the country as spread number cross 1000. Do you think you will have risk? Private clinic will make a lot of money but the doctor themselves and their families, will they be in high risk? What is the use of high income then?

(14) passive income from asset is the way to maintain financial freedom. But what is the use of it if it is coming from asset that is no longer valuable such as property, silver gold etc.

(15) we all know increase immunity is the only way now to prevent, will food supplement become the most valuable commodity in the world now? Will it classified as essential now? Will water treatment filter and air filter that can kill airborne bacteria and viruses become essential now and become more valuable?

(16) communication company and internet company, will this now become so valuable? Will e commerce triple their business?

(17)will direct selling companies that focus on e commerce and essential item including supplement air filters and water filters with home based online training system suddenly become so valuable now because people just don't have job and they are looking for essential and increase their immunity ?

(18) will transportation be affected and will shipping company grow faster? Who is going to deliver or shall I say who is willing to risk their health to be delivery driver or postman. These people used to be paid cheap, will company now hire and pay higher salary to get them going to work?

(19) which kind of occupation is no longer needed if companies decided to work from home? Which kind of industry will boom and which industry will be gone?

(20) most important thing can you and I stay home and not panic buying essential? How long can we do this and if we have to stay home long, will we have enough supply of food?

(21) which country right now have zero virus? Will they become the most livable city and country on earth? Will people start going there?

(22) will family war and divorce reduce as people stay together at home to finally have time together to sort out all issues?

What is valuable to you? 

What do You think is the next trend?

What will you do to plan for long term to secure your future?

Will u be employee or take control of your future (* if there is a future*) by being online entrepreneur? 

What is valuable to u now and in the future? 

What does the concept of God means to u? 

Will prayer from somebody and love n compassion from somebody  become more valuable? 

Will you think you can remain control like u used to be able to?

Since we have time while staying home, think about this and reply me while u stay home and don't panic buying?

"HABITS" Defined

For our purposes, we will define a habit as the intersection of knowledge, skill, and desire.

Knowledge is the theoretical paradigm, the what to do and the why. Skill is the how to do. And desire is the motivation, the want to do. In order to make something a habit in out lives, we have to have all three.

Even if I do know that in order to interact effectively with others I really need to listen to them, I may not have the skill. I may not have the skill. I may not know how to really listen deeply to another human being.

But knowing I need to listen and knowing how to listen is not enough. Unless I want to listen, unless I have the desire, it won't be a habit in my life. Creating a habit requires work in all three dimensions.

BY DESIGN OR DEFAULT

BY DESIGN OR DEFAULT

It's a principle that all things are crated twice, but not all first creations are by conscious design. In our personal lives, if we do not develop our own self-awareness and become responsible for first creations, we empower other people and circumstances outside our Circle of Influence to shape much of our lives by default. We reactivity live the scripts handed to us by family, associates, other people's agendas, the pressures of circumstance--scripts from our earlier years, from our training, our conditioning.

These script come from people, not principles. And they rise out of our deep vulnerabilities, our deep dependency on others and our needs for acceptance and love, for belonging, for a sense of importance and worth, for a feeling that we matter.

Whether we are aware of it or not, whether we are in control of it or not, there is a first creation to every part of our lives. We are either the second creation of our own proactive design, or we are the second creation of other people's agendas, of circumstances, or of past habits.

The unique human capacities of self-awareness, imagination, and conscience enable us to examine first creations and make it possible for us to take charge of our own first creation, to write our own script. Put another way, Habit 1 says, "You are the creator." Habit 2 is the first creation.

Doctor's advice about coronavirus

Doctor's advice about coronavirus:

1. It is *pretty large in size* (cell is about *400-500nm diameter*), so *any normal mask (not just the N95 feature) should be able to filter it out*. However, when someone who's infected sneezes in front of you, it will take a great 3 meters (about 10 feet) before it drops to the ground and is *no longer airborne*.

2. When the virus drops *on metal surface, it will live for at least 12 hours.*
So remember if you come in contact with any metal surface, *wash your hands with soap thoroughly. Don't depend on the sanitizers.*

3. The virus can remain active *on fabric for 6-12 hours*.
Normal *laundry detergent should kill the virus*.
For winter clothing that does not require daily washing, you can *put it out under the sun for 4 hours to kill the virus.*

IMPORTANT INFO ON #CORONA FROM AN INDIAN DOCTOR IN CHINA

By :- Dr Sunil Karkhanis, Lung Surgeon,
ex KEM Hospital, Mumbai.
My nephew, who is also a lung specialist now, graduated with a master's degree, and works in *Shenzhen Hospital, China.* He is being transferred to study *Wuhan pneumonia virus.* He just called me and told me to tell all of my friends *NOT TO WORRY MUCH ABOUT CORONA VIRUS* :

If you have a runny nose and sputum when you have a cold, you cannot be a patient of coronavirus pneumonia, because *coronavirus pneumonia is a dry cough without runny nose*. This is the simplest way to identify.

Please tell your friends that if you know more about medical knowledge about this virus, you will have more *awareness of identification and prevention.*
This time, the *Wuhan virus is not heat-resistant and will be killed at a temperature of 30-35 degrees*.
Therefore, *drink more hot water.* You can tell your friends and relatives to drink more hot water to prevent it. *Go under the Sun for a long time*. It has been cold season recently, and *drinking hot water is also very comfortable. It is not a cure but is a good prevention for the body. Drinking warm water is effective for mostly all viruses*. Try not to drink ice. remember that.

Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass but learning to dance in the rain

Lately, I read news headlines in the day and more in-depth in the evening. Just so I avoid too much negativity from it.

It gets to me and sometimes, like last night, I didn’t want to do anything except to hug and give thanks for my family.

With news after news abt the pandemic globally, this is unprecedented times we all live in.

Including for our kids and parents too, who are seeking to understand what this new world means for us, for them, for the family...from our behavior.

My kids are. My parents are. With their eyes. Their questions and their behavior.

Are yours?

So I say the show still must go on.

The virus can stop us in our tracks physically but it should not stop us from:

- Caring and supporting each other, even if remotely

- Showing up when and where it matters.

- Finding and doing hope.

For us. For our loved ones.

Stay safe. Be responsible.
Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass but learning to dance in the rain

If you’re looking for hope and longing for joy, it’s closer than you think.

If you find yourself discouraged by the ever-changing news on the Coronavirus, disheartened by social media, or overwhelmed by financial difficulty, you’re not alone.

At times, it can seem like our world is falling apart, and we’re not sure where to turn.

Here’s some good news:

If you’re looking for hope and longing for joy,
it’s closer than you think.

Service is the rent we pay for the privilege of living on this earth

N. Eldon Tanner has said: "Service is the rent we pay for the privilege of living on this earth." And there are so many ways to serve. Whether or not we belong to a church or service organization or have a job that provides meaningful service opportunities, not a day goes by that we can't at least serve one other human being by making deposits of unconditional love.

Interdependent People

Most people are a function of the social mirror, scripted by the opinions, the perceptions, the paradigms of the people around them. As interdependent people, you and I come from a paradigm which includes the realization that we are a part of social mirror.

We can choose to reflect back to others a clear, undistorted vision of themselves. We can affirm them proactive nature and treat them as responsible people. We can help script them as principle centered, value-based, independent, worthwhile individuals. And, with the Abundance Mentality, we realize that giving a positive reflection to others in no way diminishes us. It increase us because it increases the opportunities for effective interaction with other proactive people.

At some time in your life, you probably had someone believe in you when you didn't believe in yourself. They scripted you. Did that make a difference in your life???

A Prayer for Healing

A Prayer for Healing
Our God,

Your Word says that You answer people when they call on Your name, and that You deliver them.

Right now, we ask that You would heal those who are sick or who are carrying the COVID-19 virus without knowing it. Heal them and protect those around them.

Provide a cure for the Coronavirus and heal our economy. Bring a quick and miraculous end to the darkness in our world.

Whether Your healing comes today, next week, or next month, we believe that You will heal our world. And we will continue to praise You, even as we wait for answers. Please deliver us.

In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

中国最牛的10个道理，千金难买

中国最牛的10个道理，千金难买

1、靠别人永远没出息
人只有求助于自己，任何人都不可靠，世界上没有可靠的人，连你的父母，连你的儿女都不能靠，只有靠自己。

如果自己不站起来，指望别人依赖别人，永远是没有出息的人。

2、人的势利，很正常
其实，人与人的交往，人际事物的交流，势利是其常态。纯粹只讲道义，不顾势利，是非常的变态。物以稀为贵，此所以道义的绝对可贵了。

3、器度决定高度
每个人的气度、知识、范围、胸襟，都不同。你要成大功、立大业，就要培养自己的器度，像大海那样大。

4、寂寞的享受
我告诉你们一个经验：当夜深人静时，一个人跑到高山顶上或大沙漠里，非常宁静，自己的眼泪就不晓得怎么会流下来。
这不是悲伤也不是喜欢，那是一种无比的宁静的舒服，身体每一部分都自然打开了，心里的痛苦、烦恼什么都没有了。
就是古人所谓的“空山夜雨，万籁无声”。只听到空山里雨水拍打树叶的声音，别的什么都没有。那是寂寞的享受，不是钱财能够买得到的。

5、空灵才能自在
如果一个人的思想、器度不空灵，那就完了，等于拿个杯子在小坑的水里当船，永远动不了。
有高远的、空灵的境界，才可以在这个人世间，这个宇宙里，自由自在地飞，才能得到逍遥。

6、没有什么会一直拥有
凡是好的大家都希望它不要变。像人类的感情，我们都希望爱河永浴，希望它不要变；年龄也希望不要变，永远青春等等。可见人永远都是那么愚蠢！如果我们懂了这个道理，知道天地间没有不变的事物，变是当然，不变？没有这回事！

7、成大事者必变通
“功业见乎变”。
历史上的伟人：第一等智慧的领导者，晓得下一步是怎么变，便领导人家跟着变，永远站在变的前头；
第二等人是应变，你变我也变，跟着变； 第三等人是人家变了以后，他还站在原地不动，人家走过去了他在后边骂：“格老子你变得那么快，我还没有准备你就先变了！”

8、以信仰约束自己 我发现一个有思想信仰的人，他的成就绝对不同，一个人没有什么管到自己的时候，很容易就是失败的开始。

9、生命的能量来自“静”

能源从哪里来的？是从静态来的，从空来的。为什么我们忙碌到夜里就要睡觉呢？因为人也需要静态，脑筋不休息是不行的。
人的生命常常忘记了静，反而尽量用动态去消耗自己。

10、越是难，越要缓
有时候处理一件复杂困难的事，百思不得其解，忽然自己的思想说，这样做可以解决问题，这就是静态的作用。
所以你要处理复杂困难的事，一定先要静下心来什么都不想。你越想就越是把自己的脑子转了起来，所有的神经都转起来，最后不死即病。